Boyfriend still active on dating site pure match dating
We spend every single weekend together and love each other.
Except I just found out that ALL his online dating site accounts are still active and he logs on to each one once or twice a week. People can become addicted to the excitement of seeing who's checking them out.
Then when he freaks out on you tell him thats how you felt and you wanted him to understand the anger and hurt you felt. I say you can forgive someone but never forget what they do to your heart My boyfriend done exactly the same about a week ago, I found him on a dating site so I made an account myself as someone else and messaged him, he even sent me his number, I'm still with him now I don't even no what to do You made an account knowing that your boyfriend didn't know it was you ok And he gave you his number ( hello) he gave you his number to a random girl who wasn't his girlfriend. However, he was exchanging phone numbers with these women.
TRUST is the biggest thing in a relationship with out trust it's nothing. Nope He has just broken the vows before even making them. He claims he doesn't know why he does it, he is bored and that he would never actually act on any of it.
Iyou can do better, marrying a guy or having children with someone you will say I trust. Less than a year after that, I caught him with a POF profile, and a few other "hook up" websites as well as ad's posted on Craigslist for sexual encounters.
We broke up for about 3 months, saw each other occasionally and one day he came back saying he loved me and he did want us to be together, I gave it another chance.
It means he is looking for variety while keeping you as the GF. You are the only one who can choose whether you want to turn a blind eye or end it with him. We had a huge fight about this about a month ago when I once again found him on POF.
If your scared to confront him make your own POF webpage. Tell him you didn't know how to address him on it and this was the best solution to get his attention. When they boyfriend is going on POF and such..means he is looking for discreet affairs and is quite bored with the relationship and is looking to have his needs met for casual what is for him is sex and nothing emotional. Every few months or so I caught him doing something similar.
I don't believe that seeing your man with someone else is going to help you. I believe you are absolutely right, and I also have suspicions that he is unsure of his sexuality. I had to walk away and love from afar as it was stealing my happiness.
He is emotionally unavailable, meaning that he does not, and cannot, open up and be emotionally open with you.
That is the core of a relationship and since he cannot give that to you, it has been a shell of a relationship.
All it will do is leave you with a horrific memory burned into your brain. By entering this site you declare you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to its Terms, Rules & Privacy and you understand that your use of the site's content is made at your own risk and responsibility.
It could cripple you further and make you feel worse. You could not have done, or not done anything that would have prevented him from acting out like this. But if you stay with him, you will likely feel worse about yourself and then it does become your issue. Check out S-Anon and COSA (12 step groups for persons who have been affected by another's person's sex addiction).